"Should we stay together for the sake of our children?" My answer to that is "It depends". You would not be asking this question if your relationship wasn't in trouble, so whether you see it or not, your children are being affected by this. This should be your main concern. So ... Read More about Should we stay together for the sake of our children?
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How to understand men
Want to know how to understand men? Well when you work it out, please let me know! :D Let's face it... men think differently to women and they always will, so trying to work them out is like the impossible dream. How many times has he said or done something and you've been left ... Read More about How to understand men
How to increase your degree of difficulty
What does it mean to increase your degree of difficulty? Why would you want to do this? Should you only do this if you're single, if you're dating, or if you're in a relationship? Increasing your degree of difficulty is about increasing your value in a man's eyes and it doesn't matter ... Read More about How to increase your degree of difficulty
How to start the day happy
Believe it or not, whether you start the day happy or not, is purely based on choice. You may choose to wake up happy - or you may choose not to wake up happy! But how is it possible to choose to wake up happy when you're rudely woken up by your alarm clock at 6am before a long and boring ... Read More about How to start the day happy
There is always somebody worse off than you
Tonight I attended a presentation by an amazing woman by the name of Carren Smith. I thought the entire presentation was going to be focused around public speaking and tips and ideas on how to improve on my presentations. But oh boy did I get something different! Ok, I did get some ... Read More about There is always somebody worse off than you
Happy Mothers Day!
Happy mothers day to all of you mothers out there (I'm not sure if Australia's the only country celebrating this today, but happy mothers day anyway!)! A little over 13 years ago I became a mother myself for the first time, and I distinctly remember feeling an amazing sense of unconditional love, ... Read More about Happy Mothers Day!
How to stop accepting crumbs
Oooo boy! I've learned a LOT about this over the last year, and I have to say that it's been a tough but valuable lesson! I am the type of person who hates conflict. I want to make everyone happy and am probably a little too laid back when it comes to how others treat me. Well, ... Read More about How to stop accepting crumbs
How to deal with negative thoughts
Sometimes, when you're dealing with the pain of a relationship breakup, dealing with loss, or even suffering from a cigarette craving, there are some techniques you can apply to reduce or stop your negative thought patterns around these areas. I found the article below and thought I'd share it ... Read More about How to deal with negative thoughts
Moving on after separation or divorce
After my marriage ended last year, I of course found myself single and wondering if I'd ever get it "right" where my choice of partner is concerned. Now don't get me wrong - I don't regret marrying either of my two (!) ex husbands because both marriages taught me a LOT, I have grown from those ... Read More about Moving on after separation or divorce
How to maintain a positive attitude
Want to know how to maintain a positive attitude? Many people seem to be able to do this effortlessly while others just can't seem to keep that positive attitude going for more than a few days at best. I remember attending events in the past which had me pumped for days, then my enthusiasm would ... Read More about How to maintain a positive attitude