Today’s post kind of continues on from yesterday’s post where I talk about making choices based on whether or not you have control over a situation. It’s also sparked from a conversation I was involved in on Facebook yesterday where a young woman posted a picture of herself, asking something like “What do you think?” […]
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What to do if you’re in a situation you don’t like
Life has its challenges, and more often than not you probably find yourself wondering what you should do when faced with one of them. You will find yourself in situations you don’t like, and believe it or not, you will ALWAYS have a choice about what to do about it. When working out what to […]
How to get your spark back
Do you remember the days when you were excited about life? Do you remember having big dreams and feeling enthusiastic about creating the life you want? Did life feel like it had meaning? Is that feeling now gone? Yeah me too…well it was the other day…. Yes, so the other day I realised that I […]
How can I turn my mood around?
Are you feeling down right now? Are you so caught up in negative thoughts that you really just don’t see anything to be happy about in your life right now? Sometimes we get so caught up in what we’re not happy about in our lives that we forget just how much we have to be […]
What to do to save a failing marriage
Before I get started on today’s article, I first want to mention that not all marriages can be saved. And not all marriages should be saved either! If you’re being physically abused or there is serious emotional trauma going on, then this is not something I can help you with – you MUST get help […]
What are you going to do today to get you closer to achieving your desires?
It’s all well and good to have goals and desires, but what are you actually doing each day in order to achieve them? You can look at your list every day, several times a day, but will this activity actually move you closer? I’m thinking not! What you must do is take action! Sometimes though, […]
Is your guy withdrawing? Here’s what you can do…
I’ve been on this planet long enough to know that sometimes your guy is going to withdraw. I also know that it’s 99% of the time unrelated to anything I’ve said or done. The problem is, as a woman, I’m usually inclined to worry about this – a LOT! And I start telling myself stories, […]
What to do if you ever feel like you’re not good enough
If you’ve ever felt like you’re good enough it’s because of stories you’ve told yourself, or things other people have said to you in the past – and you believed those things. I had a great family life as a child. I have two brothers and a sister who I love dearly, my parents were […]
Taking your focus off your man – the key to creating lasting attraction
I don’t know about you, but I can sometimes obsess about many aspects of my life, including my man. And it does absolutely nothing to serve me, and in fact makes things harder for me sometimes. So let me give you an example… My social circle isn’t so great, so I do kind of rely […]
Setting clear boundaries in relationships
For many years I was a bit of a doormat. If I was treated badly, I would express my unhappiness about it, but would not set clear boundaries around it. So it would happen again and again and again. I’m speaking from a woman’s perspective here, but what I have learned over the years is […]