This post is for those ladies thinking of having professional pics taken for their dating profile. My best advice about this is DON'T DO IT!!! I've dated a few men, and my conversations with them and my latest guy yesterday was very telling about what happens from their perspective. Bottom ... Read More about Should I get professional photos taken for my online dating profile?
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The Wheel of Life – How I’m faring so far this year
The life coach in me has done quite a bit of reflecting today, given another year is almost done - can you believe it?? I'm reflecting on the various areas of my life and where they're at right now, and I thought I would share... Finance 7/10 - I'm doing ok in that department. Not as well as I ... Read More about The Wheel of Life – How I’m faring so far this year
My boyfriend hasn’t contacted me in two weeks but I can see he’s been on Facebook. What do I do?
Ok, so you know he's alive, but not so alive that he's felt the need to make contact with you in the last two weeks. How does that make you feel? I'm thinking you feel hurt, rejected, confused, and a whole lot of emotions that do not = happiness! This guy may be your "boyfriend" in title, but ... Read More about My boyfriend hasn’t contacted me in two weeks but I can see he’s been on Facebook. What do I do?
Why does my love life suck? Three things you need to stop in order to turn things around
A long time ago, I used to be a bit of a control freak. In fact, I was so good at it that I often didn't even realise I was being controlling at the time! This is extremely masculine, so I might as well have been a man dressed as a women. Ugh! No wonder I was either butting heads or emasculating my ... Read More about Why does my love life suck? Three things you need to stop in order to turn things around
How to attract a good man
A long long time ago, I didn't like myself very much. My self esteem was very low and I wasn't a happy girl at all. I didn't realise this at the time, but while I acted positive to the outside world, it was my inner thoughts that were ruling my life - those thoughts I wasn't necesssarily ... Read More about How to attract a good man
Upset because your guy isn’t texting or calling? Time to put things in perspective!
Stressing about whether some dude has called or texted you in the last few days?? Some time ago a friend of mine wrote a book to tell her story, and it was her story that seriously woke me up to what's important in life - and it's not some guy who doesn't text or call! This friend lost her ... Read More about Upset because your guy isn’t texting or calling? Time to put things in perspective!
Could your partner be cheating on you?
Are things not going as well with your man as you would like it to? Does something feel off, but you're not sure what it is? Could your partner be cheating on you?? Almost a decade ago I met a couple who were telling me that for 25 years of their marriage, he had been cheating on her. What the? ... Read More about Could your partner be cheating on you?
Pining over some guy? Here’s things from another perspective…
This is an edited version of something I posted elsewhere recently. Too many women out there are pining for some guy who clearly doesn't want what they want, but they hang out for him anyway, and it really makes me cringe....this is why - this is my perspective with the tables turned... I ended ... Read More about Pining over some guy? Here’s things from another perspective…
How to give yourself a positive boost if you’re feeling down
We all have down days where we have a thought that's bothering us, or somebody has done something hurtful, or you may be stressed about something at work. Whatever it is, there are many ways to give yourself an emotional boost if you're feeling down, such as: Create a gratitude journal and ... Read More about How to give yourself a positive boost if you’re feeling down
Are you being the girlfriend to a guy who’s not your boyfriend?
I had dinner last night with a guy I used to date. We are close friends now, but once upon a time we were spending every free moment together. We were never heading towards "relationship territory" (long story, but it was agreed before we started dating that it could not be more), but he fell for ... Read More about Are you being the girlfriend to a guy who’s not your boyfriend?