This post is for those ladies thinking of having professional pics taken for their dating profile. My best advice about this is DON’T DO IT!!! I’ve dated a few men, and my conversations with them and my latest guy yesterday was very telling about what happens from their perspective. Bottom line is this: Guys are visual, so they will often…
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The Wheel of Life – How I’m faring so far this year
The life coach in me has done quite a bit of reflecting today, given another year is almost done – can you believe it?? I’m reflecting on the various areas of my life and where they’re at right now, and I thought I would share… Finance 7/10 – I’m doing ok in that department. Not as well as I would…
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My boyfriend hasn’t contacted me in two weeks but I can see he’s been on Facebook. What do I do?
Ok, so you know he’s alive, but not so alive that he’s felt the need to make contact with you in the last two weeks. How does that make you feel? I’m thinking you feel hurt, rejected, confused, and a whole lot of emotions that do not = happiness! This guy may be your “boyfriend” in title, but he’s certainly…
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Why does my love life suck? Three things you need to stop in order to turn things around
A long time ago, I used to be a bit of a control freak. In fact, I was so good at it that I often didn’t even realise I was being controlling at the time! This is extremely masculine, so I might as well have been a man dressed as a women. Ugh! No wonder I was either butting heads…
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How to attract a good man
A long long time ago, I didn’t like myself very much. My self esteem was very low and I wasn’t a happy girl at all. I didn’t realise this at the time, but while I acted positive to the outside world, it was my inner thoughts that were ruling my life – those thoughts I wasn’t necesssarily conscious of, and…
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