With 2022 drawing to a close, I felt that today was going to be a good day to share an idea to help you to prepare for 2023. And why not do this in a positive way? Starting strong will require you to make a bunch of new choices!
If you’re not totally happy with where your life is right now, it is because of the hundreds if not thousands of choices you’ve made over the years. Each choice has taken you down a path which has ultimately led you to right now.
Now… I’m not saying “Your life sucks because you make bad choices!”, so please keep that in mind. What I AM saying however, is that every choice we make will have a consequence of sorts, and the consequences can be positive or negative.
Before I go on, I should also mention that “positive” for you may not be “positive” for somebody else, and the same goes for “negative” choices. What may be negative for you may not be negative for another person.
Why should I make new choices?
Making new choices will create new consequences, and again, those consequences could be positive or negative. So it’s really important that you understand what’s positive or negative for you – as it may be different for somebody else.
When we make a new choice, we are also stepping outside of our comfort zone, and this can feel really uncomfortable – even terrifying! So if you’re just starting out on this “Making New Choices Journey”, I suggest starting small, and working yourself up from there, ok? 🙂
If your life isn’t what you want it to be, then the only way to resolve that, is to make new choices! If you don’t make new choices, you will be re-creating the exact same circumstances that you’re in the midst of now. So if you don’t want things to continue as they are, then you must make new choices!
How does making new choices build your self confidence?
As mentioned earlier, making a new choice is a step outside of your comfort zone, so it’s going to feel uncomfortable, scary, hard, yukky, or even terrifying! And if you can push through that and stay consistent with the new choice, then you will begin to experience life differently.
If the new experience feels good to you, then it’s important that you keep making the positive choices which created that experience! If the new experience feels bad to you, then it’s time to course-correct and make another choice.
When you begin to shift your experience into a more positive one through your new choices, your self confidence will increase. You will have direct feedback from your experience, which is telling you that you did something good for yourself! The new choices also won’t feel so scary anymore as you become more comfortable with them.
This will lead to you being able to make more new choices for yourself (hopefully positive!), so that your experience can continue to improve.
And what’s awesome about all of this, is that your new comfort zone will have changed. You will be more comfortable making choices which align to who you are as a Soul. This is a much better way than making choices which keep you stuck and where you don’t want to be! Right??
How do I know which choices are positive for me?
A great way to determine which choices are aligned with who you are as a Soul, and are therefore “positive” for you, is to experience a Soul Realignment Reading.
A Soul Realignment Reading provides you with a great deal of information about yourself, such as:
- Who you are as a Soul – your gifts, your strengths, situations to avoid, and situations in which you will thrive
- Any blocks or restrictions which may be preventing you from living an abundant life
- Patterns of negative choices made over a number of lifetimes, which have created your current reality
- Possible new choices you could make in order to break those negative choice patterns and start creating the life that you truly desire
- So much more!
What to do next
Your next step is to to get really clear on where you are at, and write that down. Don’t take too much time on this as we don’t want to spend too much energy focusing on what you don’t want.
Next, write down what you do want, in great detail. Don’t leave anything out!
Also write down what having what you do want will feel for you. Will you feel relief, freedom, successful, strong, powerful, recognised, acknowledged, or excited?
The last part is important, because it’s important that every new choice you make from now on is aligned with the energy which is attached to the outcome you desire!
The next step is to start making new choices – even tiny ones – then watch for the feedback!
Over time, you’re going to become more aware of what your choices are and how each one plays out in your life, so be sure to pay attention!
Do you want to know more?
If you’d like to learn more about Soul Realignment and the number of reading types available, visit the Soul Realignment Page today, or reach out!
Leave a Reply