This is my favourite photo from our wedding day, and it represents the type of relationship I have with this beautiful man. He was doubled over laughing because I am severely uncoordinated, and during our photo shoot with our wedding photographer, I really made sure that everybody knew about it! As you can see, I was also laughing!
Seriously though, my dance moves were amazing, so why he was laughing, I have no idea!?
What I love about our relationship is that we can laugh with – and at – each other. We don’t expect the other to be “perfect” (is there such a thing?), and we accept each other, warts and all, 100%.
We have both learned that life is to be enjoyed, and to not sweat the small stuff, and it’s ok to have a laugh, even if it’s at the expense of each other! Don’t worry, I have an huge arsenal of things I can tease my husband about, so it’s not like I’m the only one being laughed at! Haha!
As for how I got to this point, which happens to be my marriage to this wonderful man, it involved a LOT of dealing with my shit!
In the few years leading up to the moment I met my husband to be, I was holding onto old resentments from well over a decade before, and thankfully I dealt with that shit long before he came along.
I’ve seen this so many times before… a bitter woman who has split with her a$$hole of a husband, and is hell-bent on taking him for everything he’s got – and usually the kids are dragged through it.
If only she knew the damage she was doing not only to her kids, but to herself!
There is no chance she will attract a wonderful, loving man, if she’s in the vibration of rage and revenge. In fact, any smart man would leave her the hell alone if he valued his life and his sanity!
I wasn’t like that, thankfully, but I was holding onto old resentments. I needed to let those go and I needed to learn to love my own company before I was ready to meet my husband. When I did finally deal with my shit, it was like things just magically started to happen, and before long, I was looking deep into his beautiful brown eyes, feeling so grateful that we were finally together – and it could never have happened if I’d remained in the vibration of resentment.
This is why it’s so important to deal with your shit!
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