Dating & Relationships

I’ve been chatting to some girlfriends about dating, and chasing men in particular, and there was some debate about what’s “ok” and what isn’t when it comes to initiating contact… Some people tell you that initiating ANY type of contact with a man is chasing and it’ll send him running. But I don’t believe that… […]

So often I hear the question “How can I tell if he’s interested in me?” and with around six months of being properly back on the dating scene again, I can honestly say that if he’s interested, you’re going to know about it – if you do things the right way! 😉 These days, women […]

How many times have you felt frustrated, angry or upset with your guy for not calling you for days, for being moody ALL of the time (well, it feels that way…), or for just plain doing things that make you feel bad? Here’s a situation you might relate to: Lisa is a beautiful, outgoing girl […]

Before I get started on today’s article, I first want to mention that not all marriages can be saved.  And not all marriages should be saved either! If you’re being physically abused or there is serious emotional trauma going on, then this is not something I can help you with – you MUST get help […]

I’ve been on this planet long enough to know that sometimes your guy is going to withdraw. I also know that it’s 99% of the time unrelated to anything I’ve said or done. The problem is, as a woman, I’m usually inclined to worry about this – a LOT! And I start telling myself stories, […]

I don’t know about you, but I can sometimes obsess about many aspects of my life, including my man. And it does absolutely nothing to serve me, and in fact makes things harder for me sometimes. So let me give you an example… My social circle isn’t so great, so I do kind of rely […]

For many years I was a bit of a doormat. If I was treated badly, I would express my unhappiness about it, but would not set clear boundaries around it. So it would happen again and again and again. I’m speaking from a woman’s perspective here, but what I have learned over the years is […]

Today I’m going to talk a little about relationships and how your actions can draw a man in or push him away and what you can do to turn this around if you find your man withdrawing. After two failed marriages, lots of dates and even more research on this topic, I have a pretty […]

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if relationships were easy and you always knew where you stood and life therefore was wonderful and effortless? But of course we know that’s not the reality, and relationships can be downright confusing! I don’t know of any relationship that is perfect – they all come with thier own challenges, but […]