I’ve been thinking all day about what to write in today’s post, and I have struggled! But a friend of mine paid me a visit today, and she told me a few things about what’s been happening in her marriage. She’s had relationship issues for many months now, and she’s attended counseling to get to […]
Dating & Relationships
Nagging vs Leaning Back – what would you choose?
Let’s face it – guys can be clueless sometimes, and often they do things that seem to be with no thought as to our feelings. What’s with that?? So while I’m a huge advocate of keeping the communication lines open, this does NOT mean that I’m all for letting a man know, every time we […]
Why did my man cheat? Some of the reasons behind infidelity…
The first thing I want to say about this is that no man will cheat for no reason. A man who is 100% happy in his relationship and is having all of his needs met, will have no reason to cheat. But all too many men do cheat, so it brings up the question as […]
The guy I’ve been dating has disappeared – I don’t want to lose him!
I see different variations of this scenario all the time – but the basics are the same… “Hi Michelle I’ve been dating a guy for two months now and he’s stopped contacting me. It’s like he’s disappeared! I have tried calling and texting him, but he hasn’t replied, and I feel devastated at the thought […]
It’s time to get real – is your guy really all that great?
I received a private message from a lovely person who was grieving the loss of a guy, who from my perspective, was giving her nothing but crumbs. She was absolutely devastated at losing this guy, and here’s what I said to her… “Based on what you’ve told me, you are pining over a guy who […]
Why does my guy keep saying he can’t win with me?
Does your guy complain that no matter what he does, it’s never the right thing? Does he get all frustrated, saying that he just cannot please you, no matter what he does? Here is a question that was put to me this morning… Hi Michelle, My guy said to me last night that he was […]
How do I get my ex back?
Ugh! I hear women asking this question all too often, and to be honest, it’s a cringe-worthy thought. Why on earth would ANYONE want an ex back?? Aren’t they an ex for a reason??? Also, why would someone even want someone who doesn’t even want them??? Do they really think that little of themselves??? The […]
I am hung up on my ex. How do I move on?
Aahhh yes… the dreaded “I can’t move on from my ex” story… I’ve seen a bit of this today, and to be honest, it makes me cringe! For me, it’s a bit black and white. Once a guy becomes an ex (either he dumps me or I dump him), he’s immediately lost any chance of […]
How to cope with a long distance relationship
I never thought I’d find myself in a long distance relationship (LDR), but here I am…in a long distance relationship. I’ve done the verbally and emotionally abusive relationship, cheaters, men who won’t commit, guys who go back to an ex, or are too hung up on someone who doesn’t feel the same way about them, […]
What do I do if my man is not doing things to make me happy?
You have this guy in your life and it seems he’s failing at making you happy…. He knows you want more attention from him, he knows you want him to say more nice things to you and he knows you want him to do more things for you, but he just won’t do it, and […]