Dating & Relationships

A long long time ago, I didn’t like myself very much. My self esteem was very low and I wasn’t a happy girl at all. I didn’t realise this at the time, but while I acted positive to the outside world, it was my inner thoughts that were ruling my life – those thoughts I […]

Stressing about whether some dude has called or texted you in the last few days?? Some time ago a friend of mine wrote a book to tell her story, and it was her story that seriously woke me up to what’s important in life – and it’s not some guy who doesn’t text or call! […]

Are things not going as well with your man as you would like it to? Does something feel off, but you’re not sure what it is? Could your partner be cheating on you?? Almost a decade ago I met a couple who were telling me that for 25 years of their marriage, he had been […]

This is an edited version of something I posted elsewhere recently. Too many women out there are pining for some guy who clearly doesn’t want what they want, but they hang out for him anyway, and it really makes me cringe….this is why – this is my perspective with the tables turned… I ended things […]

I had dinner last night with a guy I used to date. We are close friends now, but once upon a time we were spending every free moment together. We were never heading towards “relationship territory” (long story, but it was agreed before we started dating that it could not be more), but he fell […]

I see it every day… a woman is angry or upset because the guy she’s dating isn’t stepping up. She’s always wondering if he really likes her, or if he’s just using her for sex. She spends countless hours of her day psycho analysing his text messages, wondering why he’s not asked to see her […]

I’ve been single for almost a month now (it feels like longer), and I’m now quite ok with the idea, except that I wasn’t all that thrilled about spending my child free Saturday night at home alone. I got to thinking that I need to get out more, and at first I thought about dating, […]

Alright… I think this is going to come across quite harshly for some of you, but all too often I see women who are so focused on getting back an ex that dumped them for whatever reason. He dumped you, remember??? Ok… so being dumped hurts – a lot! I know it becuase it happened […]