If you’ve been through a divorce or a significant breakup, it’s understandable that you may be feeling lost, frustrated, and confused, among other strong emotions. Perhaps you’ve started dating again, but you find that the men you’re meeting aren’t the right fit for you. What you may have tried You may have tried various approaches, […]
Dating & Relationships
How to solve a problem more efficiently
When you are dealing with stuff, are you coming from the place of solving the problem, or from a place of creating what you want? This is the question a friend and mentor of mine asked during a video he posted on Facebook recently, and it made me think! I’ve always seen myself as a “problem […]
How your beliefs dictate the state of your love life
If your love life isn’t exactly how you’d like it to be, then it could be that you have some underlying beliefs, some of which you may not be aware of, which may be dictating the state of your love life! I remember talking to a friend during my single days… we were both single […]
Why can’t I get a date?
“Why can’t I get a date?” is a question more commonly asked than you think. It reminds me of a time several years ago when I was dating. A friend of mine was complaining about not being able to find any men to date – at all. Meanwhile, I had several men waiting up to […]
How dealing with my shit attracted the love of my life
This is my favourite photo from our wedding day, and it represents the type of relationship I have with this beautiful man. He was doubled over laughing because I am severely uncoordinated, and during our photo shoot with our wedding photographer, I really made sure that everybody knew about it! As you can see, I […]
Dealing with grief
On the weekend, my two daughters, my husband and I, farewelled my gorgeous dog. She was almost 17 years old and her quality of life was beginning to deteriorate and I made the heartbreaking decision to end her life – and it HURTS. Grief is a strange thing… sometimes I feel ok, and at other […]
Why is self love so important?
I’ve received a number of emails this week, plus I’ve seen a number of Facebook posts recently, where the writer is clearly struggling with self love, and this is actually kind of sad. Why is self love so important? Self love is extremely important, because without it, you’re very likely to make choices for yourself […]
How Self Confidence Can Improve Your Relationships
As a dating coach, I talk to many women who are seeking love and lasting relationships. One thing comes across quite strongly: People with a good level of self confidence have a distinct advantage in dating in that their confidence is like a beacon of light that draws their desired partner in like moths! When […]
How to mend a broken heart after a breakup
Relationship breakups can be extremely painful, especially if you have been with that person for a long time. At first it feels as though your heart will never mend from the breakup, but the good news is that it is possible to heal, no matter how painful things feel right now. One thing I am […]
What I think of “How to get your ex back” programs
I see program after program being advertised for “How to get your ex back” , and the whole thing just makes me cringe. I’m guessing you’ve already worked out what I think of these programs! In truth, I don’t think very much of them at all, and in many cases I believe they are sending […]