Aahhh yes… the dreaded “I can’t move on from my ex” story… I’ve seen a bit of this today, and to be honest, it makes me cringe! For me, it’s a bit black and white. Once a guy becomes an ex (either he dumps me or I dump him), he’s immediately lost any chance of […]
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Having trouble staying focused on your biggest goal? Try this!
Are you having trouble staying focused on your goals? You know you should stay focused, and you know that by staying focused, you increase your chances of achieving them…. But life gets in the way… I do the same. I have a goal, I’m really excited about it, then life happens and my goal slips […]
A little act of kindness can go a long way…
A few weeks ago I was satisfying my Facebook addiction when I came across a link to a site that was all about celebrating kindness and wisdom. Sounds nice, but what was it about? What caught my eye was that they were talking about “paying it forward”. You know, when you perform an act of […]
How to cope with a long distance relationship
I never thought I’d find myself in a long distance relationship (LDR), but here I am…in a long distance relationship. I’ve done the verbally and emotionally abusive relationship, cheaters, men who won’t commit, guys who go back to an ex, or are too hung up on someone who doesn’t feel the same way about them, […]
What do I do if my man is not doing things to make me happy?
You have this guy in your life and it seems he’s failing at making you happy…. He knows you want more attention from him, he knows you want him to say more nice things to you and he knows you want him to do more things for you, but he just won’t do it, and […]
What are your goals for 2014?
Happy new year everyone! I’ve been a bit out of whack with my posts lately but hope to get myself into a better routine in 2014. So… who has started writing down their goals for 2014? If you haven’t, you’re like me – and you need to start! A good friend of mine who happens […]
Who is the prize? You or him??
I am a member of many forums and groups where women come together to give advice and support each other in working their way through relationships, and in particular, difficult ones. What I’ve observed over the last couple of years is that soooo many women cling to and pine over some men, who clearly don’t […]
Loving your man more than you love yourself
Once upon a time I was that girl, the one who loved her man much more than she loved herself. As a result of this, my man didn’t treat me very well at all. In fact, he was verbally and emotionally abusive towards me, and also very controlling. I loved him so much that I […]
Being ok with being single – 5 ideas to get you there
I’ve been single for some time now, and since my marriage ended in April 2010, I’ve had one “longish” relationship that lasted two and a half years. That ended a year ago and since then I’ve been working very hard on myself to become the best person I can be. I’ve enjoyed my year of […]
What is your Plan B? Five interesting ways to make money from home
I’m a huge advocate for creating additional ways to make an income. No jobs are 100% safe, so it’s important that you have a Plan B in place to protect you. So today I’ve decided to put together a list of things I’ve done or things others have done, in order to create and additional […]