I see it every day... a woman is angry or upset because the guy she's dating isn't stepping up. She's always wondering if he really likes her, or if he's just using her for sex. She spends countless hours of her day psycho analysing his text messages, wondering why he's not asked to see her on a ... Read More about How to tell if a guy is into you
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What to do if you’re single and online dating isn’t for you
I've been single for almost a month now (it feels like longer), and I'm now quite ok with the idea, except that I wasn't all that thrilled about spending my child free Saturday night at home alone. I got to thinking that I need to get out more, and at first I thought about dating, but then I ... Read More about What to do if you’re single and online dating isn’t for you
“I want to get my ex back” and other ways you can lower your value
Alright... I think this is going to come across quite harshly for some of you, but all too often I see women who are so focused on getting back an ex that dumped them for whatever reason. He dumped you, remember??? Ok... so being dumped hurts - a lot! I know it becuase it happened to me - on ... Read More about “I want to get my ex back” and other ways you can lower your value
How to move on after a relationship breakup
I recently spent a few magical days in Canada, and while I was over there, I received a call from my boyfriend. He was calling to tell me that he was going back to his ex wife. They had separated last year, and we had known each other for close to a decade. We had been seeing each other for a ... Read More about How to move on after a relationship breakup
If you know you look good, you will FEEL good!
While I'm not a big wearer of makeup, I do feel better about myself and more confident when I know I look good - and I don't have to cake it on to do so! A little bit of makeup that enhances your best features, is all you need to look and feel better as you go out and face the world. This is ... Read More about If you know you look good, you will FEEL good!
Are you their priority or just an option?
I have the pleasure of being a part of a group of women who regularly share stories of our lives, offering help and support to each other as we tackle life's ups and downs. Yesterday, one of these women shared a post that I would like to discuss... She started off with this... “Never allow ... Read More about Are you their priority or just an option?
What causes some relationship problems?
I've been thinking all day about what to write in today's post, and I have struggled! But a friend of mine paid me a visit today, and she told me a few things about what's been happening in her marriage. She's had relationship issues for many months now, and she's attended counseling to get to the ... Read More about What causes some relationship problems?
Nagging vs Leaning Back – what would you choose?
Let's face it - guys can be clueless sometimes, and often they do things that seem to be with no thought as to our feelings. What's with that?? So while I'm a huge advocate of keeping the communication lines open, this does NOT mean that I'm all for letting a man know, every time we are upset by ... Read More about Nagging vs Leaning Back – what would you choose?
Why did my man cheat? Some of the reasons behind infidelity…
The first thing I want to say about this is that no man will cheat for no reason. A man who is 100% happy in his relationship and is having all of his needs met, will have no reason to cheat. But all too many men do cheat, so it brings up the question as to why... Firstly, let's focus on us! To ... Read More about Why did my man cheat? Some of the reasons behind infidelity…
Think your job is safe? Think again!
Today I received some news that shocked me, although at the same time it wasn't completely unexpected. My job was made redundant. For many people, news such as this would be devastating, because what it means is that your main source of income has suddenly disappeared! But for me, I feel mixed. I ... Read More about Think your job is safe? Think again!