Want to know how to get your man to step up? Here’s the simple answer: You can’t make any man (or anybody else for that matter) step up, if they don’t want to. It’s as simple as that. Every day I’m seeing posts and comments from women asking how they get their man to step […]
What to do if somebody is trying to bring you down
Have you ever felt that no matter what you do, a certain person will always put you down? Many years ago, I was married quite unhappily to a man who did not have a single nice thing to say to me. It really hurt, and over time, my self confidence took a beating, to the […]
What do I do if somebody is trying to bring me down?
It’s a sad fact that you’re going to meet people in your life who seem like they’re out to destroy your happiness. The thing is, there is absolutely nothing you can do to control their behaviour, but there’s everything you can do to control your response to their behaviour, and this is the key to […]
How to get yourself out of a funk
Have you ever had one of those weeks where you’ve lost all motivation to do anything productive, and you’ve really just lost interest in most things? Yup me too! A month ago, I finished working for the company I’d been with for 3 years. I received a nice little payout, but not enough to bring […]
Why am I still single??
Since 2010 I’ve spent a lot of time being single, and it’s been an interesting journey. While I believed I was a good catch, why was I single for so long? (I did finally meet my wonderful man in 2016, which is good news!) Anyway, prior to meeting him, I had friends (both male and […]
Empowerment of women… Is this a good thing?
You may be reading the title of this post, and if you’re a woman, you’re likely thinking “Well of course it is!” On the other hand, you could be a man who’s reading this, and you’ve just managed to free yourself from a relationship with a woman who emotionally beat you into a pulp over […]
When the Law of Attraction “isn’t working”
How do you know if the Law of Attraction (LOA) is “working”? How will you know that you are starting to manifest your greatest desires? I’m a member of a Facebook group that talks about manifesting these great desires, and I often see posts from people saying “Oh I’ve done everything I’m supposed to do […]
How can I reduce anxiety and stress, and what does gravity have to do with it?
You’re probably reading the title of this post and wondering what I’m going on about, right? Well… gravity (or at least thinking about it) has a LOT to do with reducing anxiety and stress, as it is all about how you frame situations you are facing. In order to make some sense, I will tell […]
What to do if things aren’t going your way
I’ve been in this situation so many times when things don’t seem to be going my way. In the past I would feel frustrated, upset or angry. But now? It’s a completely different story! Here’s the thing…. I know there are some things in life that I cannot control, so I don’t spend an ounce […]
How do you know he’s “the one”?
Those of you who know me, will be aware of my interesting love life over the last 20+ years and I’ve often wondered why “the one” has alluded me. Why can’t I just meet “the one” and be done with it, like my parents did?? I’ve been abused, cheated on, had men go back to […]