Do you know what? Even Coaches and Energy Practitioners get stuck. I found myself in a world of “stuckness” for what felt like forever, but it was probably a much shorter timeframe than that!
While I love what I do, I was kind of “floating around” for a bit and not really doing as much work on the coaching side of things as I wanted to, and I found that it was because I hadn’t yet honed in on the people I really wanted to help.
If I could, I would help EVERYONE in the world, but we all know that’s possibly not within my reach right now, because: a) Some people don’t want to be helped; and b) There are only so many people I can help in one day, a week, or even a year (am I sounding like the theme song from Friends right now??)
I hated feeling stuck, but for a while there I was unsure of how to get unstuck, so I decided to try a few things:
- I stopped trying to find the answers I needed in order to shift things.
- I stopped asking my guides every day to point me in the right direction – I felt like I’d been let down a little, to be honest, but all was not lost as I later found out!
- I started working on my focus, and I shifted my focus onto what I DO want.
- I took a break from Coaching and Healing, and I allowed myself time to focus some time on learning more about me, about how my mind works, and about the resistances I had within my energy field.
- I reached out to my old Coach and Mentor – this was my turning point! He pointed out where I was holding myself back, which allowed me to do the required energy and mindset work to clear the blocks which were preventing me from seeing the bleeding obvious! Sometimes we need somebody else to point out what is clearly in front of us! 🙂
After all of this, guess what happened?
The answer came to me as my husband and I were on a road trip out west! It came to me along with a flood of yummy, juicy emotion – it was like all of my answers suddenly just entered my brain! And they’d been right in front of me the whole time!!!
My purpose is to help people to get unstuck! How could I have missed this?? Here I was, stuck and unsure about what my next steps were, and it finally dawned on me!
I was being shown how this felt, because I needed to understand how it feels and I needed to do the work to come unstuck so I could help others to do the same! Wow. Imagine what my life would have been like during that time if I’d reached out to my coach earlier! Ha!
All this time I’ve been spending hours upon hours working on building online courses, when all along I was in a place where I could truly help others, to help them move from frustrating “stuckness” to happy and in flow!
I have recently been working with a friend of mine who found herself in the midst of stuckness around a lost relationship, where she really wasn’t seeing a way out. I spoke to her today and it’s like I’ve met a completely different human! Her transformation has been incredible, and while I helped her through this dark time in her life, most of the work was done by her – we cannot heal until we choose to heal, and until we’re prepared to put in the work. She has shown me today just what’s possible, because not only has her love life improved, but so have other aspects of her life! And this stuff makes me very, very, very happy! <3
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