How to understand men

Want to know how to understand men?  Well when you work it out, please let me know!  😀

Let’s face it… men think differently to women and they always will, so trying to work them out is like the impossible dream.

How many times has he said or done something and you’ve been left trying to work out what he meant by his words or actions?

So he didn’t call you when he said he would, for example…  If you’re like most women, you’re probably trying to come up with the various reasons why he didn’t call.  Maybe he was in a car accident, or he lost his phone, or he had to wash his hair….???

I hate to tell you this girls, but trying to work out what your guy’s thinking and why, will only drive you CRAZY!!!

So how do you stop the craziness?  How do you stop worrying about whether you’ve done something wrong?  How do you get on with your life without obsessing over him?

Before I go any further, I just need to quickly mention that obsessing over him = doom!  Stop doing it!  It will come through in your vibe and you’ll only push him away!

Ok, so how do we stop this?

The first thing you need to do is get busy doing your own thing.  No more waiting by the phone.  No more thinking about him 24 hours a day.  No more revolving your life around him.

It’s time to get your life on track doing what YOU want to do.   If he wants to call you, then he will.  If he doesn’t, then he won’t.  Ok he may have a good excuse, but don’t think you’d feel a whole lot better if you didn’t spend your entire afternoon waiting by the phone to ring, and you did something fun instead?

Organise outings with girlfriends, book yourself in for a massage or manicure, indulge in one of your favourite hobbies, exercise – either alone or in a class….

The aim here is to NOT think about him and to focus ENTIRELY on you and your interests!

And even better, get passionate about your life!  What really makes your heart sing?  Focus on that!  And if he calls when he says he will, then great!  Be happy about that!  But if he doesn’t, well that’s great too, because you were busy doing something you were passionate about and didn’t want to be interrupted!  :)

Trust me… this change in your vibe is probably the very best thing you can do for your relationship with your guy and you will see quick results! 😉

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