Happy Valentine’s Day!

Happy Valentine’s Day everybody! 

Many couples will be heading out tonight for a romantic meal or whatever, although there are those who don’t have that special someone in their life.

Based on statistics I’ve taken on the subject, there are a large number of people out there who are looking for someone to love, but many are afraid to ask someone out.

I have talked before about how your self confidence and self esteem can really affect the type of person you attract.  Also, it can determine whether you have the courage to even get out there and look!

If you are single and lacking in courage or self esteem, think about the message you are putting across.  The "old" me would have settled for someone who lacked confidence or self esteem, however the "new" me definitely would not.  That’s not because I feel I am "better" or "superior" to them, but because they would not be in tune with me or my personality. 

A few years ago when I became single after 9 years, my attitude had changed significantly from 9 years before, so the type of person I was looking for was very different.  I ended up marrying a person who was the complete opposite to my former husband!

I promise you that if you improve your self esteem, you will change the type of people you attract.  If you don’t like what you’re attracting, have a good look at yourself and work to change it.



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