How do I attract the right partner?

MPj04223050000[1]I have a good friend who is single and I’m really writing this today to help her out, because she doesnt’ like being single and really does want to meet “Mr Right”.

So how can she attract the right partner for her?

Well, here’s a list of things I think she should do in order to attract Mr Right (if he does in fact exist!):

1. Write it down – write down what you want – this is by far the most important step!

Write it as though you have already got him/her! Eg. I am so happy and grateful now that I have met the perfect man/woman for me. He/she has the following qualities….:

2. Now, it’s time to write down what qualities you think your partner should have. List down the essentials, followed by the “nice to haves”.

This step is essential, because you might meet a great guy, but he doesn’t want to commit long term, or you might want children and he doesn’t or any number of conflicting things!

3. Believe that you will eventually meet this perfect partner of yours – if you don’t believe he exists, then how on earth do you think you are going to attract him? Also, if you do meet Mr Right and you lack this belief, he might think you’re cynical and negative and you will unknowingly push him away!

4. Detach – know that you will be ok regardless of if/when he/she comes your way.

Detaching takes the emphasis off the devastation you would feel if you were to remain single for the rest of your days.

If the thought of not meeting your perfect partner brings up feelings of dread, then you definitely have not detached and you are still harboring negative emotions around this.

On the other hand, if you know you will be fine, happy and self-sufficient regardless of whether you meet someone or not, then you are most likely to meet him/her. You are at peace with your current situation which means you are more likely to attract what you want!

5. Enjoy yourself and get out there! If you’re sitting on your couch waiting for your knight in shining armor to jump in through the window, you’re going to be waiting a very, very long time.

Have fun, go out with friends, take up a sport or a hobby, do something you are passionate about.

Chances are your perfect partner shares the same passion and what better way to find them!

Have a happy and safe Easter!

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