<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments for Self Confidence 101&#187; Self Confidence 101</title>
	<atom:link href="http://selfconfidence101.com/comments/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://selfconfidence101.com</link>
	<description>Build self confidence, change your life...!</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 06:42:36 -0600</lastBuildDate>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4</generator>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
		<item>
		<title>Comment on Could you do this for an entire week? A challenge for you! by Michelle Green</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/could-you-do-this-for-an-entire-week-a-challenge-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-256</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Green</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 06:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/can-you-do-this-for-an-entire-week-a-challenge-for-you/#comment-256</guid>
		<description>Thanks for your comment Nandita.   :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comment Nandita.   <img src='http://selfconfidence101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Could you do this for an entire week? A challenge for you! by nandita.acharya</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/could-you-do-this-for-an-entire-week-a-challenge-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-255</link>
		<dc:creator>nandita.acharya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 11:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/can-you-do-this-for-an-entire-week-a-challenge-for-you/#comment-255</guid>
		<description>It works.. the more you think positive thoughts the more confident and sure of yourself  you feel.. great advice!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It works.. the more you think positive thoughts the more confident and sure of yourself  you feel.. great advice!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Take a risk every day by Michelle Green</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/take-a-risk-every-day/comment-page-1/#comment-254</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Green</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 03:50:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/take-a-risk-every-day/#comment-254</guid>
		<description>Trudy, you&#039;re right.  You can&#039;t always please everyone, and you&#039;re not human if you don&#039;t make mistakes from them.

The best thing you can do is learn from your mistakes and move foward.  Once you can do this, you will begin to experience success in all areas of your life.

Thank you so much for your comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trudy, you&#8217;re right.  You can&#8217;t always please everyone, and you&#8217;re not human if you don&#8217;t make mistakes from them.</p>
<p>The best thing you can do is learn from your mistakes and move foward.  Once you can do this, you will begin to experience success in all areas of your life.</p>
<p>Thank you so much for your comment.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Take a risk every day by Trudy</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/take-a-risk-every-day/comment-page-1/#comment-253</link>
		<dc:creator>Trudy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:44:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/take-a-risk-every-day/#comment-253</guid>
		<description>I have dealt with fear many times in my life. Growing up I could never please my mother. I am always afraid of making mistakes and someone making me feel bad. I will check out this book. I always try to please everyone but knowing that I can&#039;t sometimes. Now I am learing when I make a mistake. We are not perfect and we do make mistakes in life. I try not to let people get to me anymore.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have dealt with fear many times in my life. Growing up I could never please my mother. I am always afraid of making mistakes and someone making me feel bad. I will check out this book. I always try to please everyone but knowing that I can&#8217;t sometimes. Now I am learing when I make a mistake. We are not perfect and we do make mistakes in life. I try not to let people get to me anymore.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Goal Achieved! I Have Quit My Job! by Michelle Green</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/setting-goals/goal-achieved-i-have-quit-my-job/comment-page-1/#comment-252</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Green</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 11:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/setting-goals/goal-achieved-i-have-quit-my-job/#comment-252</guid>
		<description>Vicki, thank you for voicing your opinion.

I get where you are coming from about how it is usually the course owners who are making the money, and not those buying the course.  We see it every day, so it&#039;s actually a healthy thing to be sceptical about such things.

Of course, I&#039;m not going to leave it at that though! :)

If you read Barry&#039;s sales page you will notice that he talks about building a business that will eventually require little input from you.

The difference between this course and any other I have seen however, is that this one provides almost instant results.  The others I have seen (and done!) don&#039;t offer results like this.   Also, because you have 30 days to try it out, you essentially get the bulk of the course up front with zero risk.  Many people could make a living just on Module 1!  In fact, many do!  So this course is essentially free of risk.  

Now, I am yet to come across anybody who has not made back the cost of the course within the first two weeks.  That is definitely something to consider.

I am now earning a full time income from home, and only started his course two months ago.  Some days I earn more than I did in my job, and at other times I earn a little less, but in all cases it all comes down to the amount of effort I am prepared to put in each day.  

I spend my days in my home office, not worrying about commuting to work or the swine flu or anything else that&#039;s going around.  I can even sit outside with my laptop and enjoy the sunshine when I work.  It&#039;s not for everybody, but I&#039;m not &quot;everybody&quot;!

If I can open up the door by telling somebody else about this who would benefit from my experience, then of course I am happy to tell the world, because this stuff has been life changing for me.

This won&#039;t suit everybody though.  In fact, a couple of people I know of have dropped out of the course because they just couldn&#039;t keep up with the workload.  If you&#039;ve never felt overwhelmed with work before, then you will now.

If you&#039;re any good at writing (and even if you&#039;re not) then it&#039;s definitely worth at least a look, because this course will teach you how to become a full time writer/entrepreneur, although be prepared for a huge learning curve and &lt;em&gt;lots &lt;/em&gt;of work.

It is the optimists, the ones who are prepared to take whatever action it takes to achieve their goals, that will achieve them, and this course is going to save a lot of people a lot of commuting to work time!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vicki, thank you for voicing your opinion.</p>
<p>I get where you are coming from about how it is usually the course owners who are making the money, and not those buying the course.  We see it every day, so it&#8217;s actually a healthy thing to be sceptical about such things.</p>
<p>Of course, I&#8217;m not going to leave it at that though! <img src='http://selfconfidence101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>If you read Barry&#8217;s sales page you will notice that he talks about building a business that will eventually require little input from you.</p>
<p>The difference between this course and any other I have seen however, is that this one provides almost instant results.  The others I have seen (and done!) don&#8217;t offer results like this.   Also, because you have 30 days to try it out, you essentially get the bulk of the course up front with zero risk.  Many people could make a living just on Module 1!  In fact, many do!  So this course is essentially free of risk.  </p>
<p>Now, I am yet to come across anybody who has not made back the cost of the course within the first two weeks.  That is definitely something to consider.</p>
<p>I am now earning a full time income from home, and only started his course two months ago.  Some days I earn more than I did in my job, and at other times I earn a little less, but in all cases it all comes down to the amount of effort I am prepared to put in each day.  </p>
<p>I spend my days in my home office, not worrying about commuting to work or the swine flu or anything else that&#8217;s going around.  I can even sit outside with my laptop and enjoy the sunshine when I work.  It&#8217;s not for everybody, but I&#8217;m not &#8220;everybody&#8221;!</p>
<p>If I can open up the door by telling somebody else about this who would benefit from my experience, then of course I am happy to tell the world, because this stuff has been life changing for me.</p>
<p>This won&#8217;t suit everybody though.  In fact, a couple of people I know of have dropped out of the course because they just couldn&#8217;t keep up with the workload.  If you&#8217;ve never felt overwhelmed with work before, then you will now.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re any good at writing (and even if you&#8217;re not) then it&#8217;s definitely worth at least a look, because this course will teach you how to become a full time writer/entrepreneur, although be prepared for a huge learning curve and <em>lots </em>of work.</p>
<p>It is the optimists, the ones who are prepared to take whatever action it takes to achieve their goals, that will achieve them, and this course is going to save a lot of people a lot of commuting to work time!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on How to be a positive thinker by Michelle Green</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/how-to-be-a-positive-thinker/comment-page-1/#comment-250</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Green</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 04:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/how-to-be-a-positive-thinker/#comment-250</guid>
		<description>Hello Ara

Firstly, there is nothing &quot;wrong&quot; with you.  In fact, you&#039;re probably like millions of other people all over the world who worry about their partners cheating or lying to them. 

There is a saying that goes &quot;You attract what you think about&quot;.   This is not to say that your bf is going to go out tomorrow and cheat, just because you were thinking about him doing it.  But it&#039;s more about the non-verbal signals you are putting out.

Over time, he will begin to sense your lack of trust.  If you have not said anything to him about these feelings, it doesn&#039;t matter.  The message will get through and eventually you will push him away and therefore attract what you were so worried about!

So what can you do?  

Firstly you must understand that there is no 100% guaranteed way to prevent somebody cheating on you, so worrying about it happening is doing you no good whatsoever!

Next, it is time to listen to your heart.  If he has given you absolutely no reason to mistrust him, then maybe he is worthy of your trust?  

Whenever you begin to think these negative thoughts about him in this case, replace them with positive thoughts about him.  Think about how good he is to you, how well he treats you, and all of the good things you have together.  Over time, you will begin to &quot;train&quot; your mind to think positively instead of negatively.

On the other hand, if he has deceived you before, then it might be time to evaluate whether you are in a relationship with somebody who deserves you?

I hope this has helped?!

Michelle</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Ara</p>
<p>Firstly, there is nothing &#8220;wrong&#8221; with you.  In fact, you&#8217;re probably like millions of other people all over the world who worry about their partners cheating or lying to them. </p>
<p>There is a saying that goes &#8220;You attract what you think about&#8221;.   This is not to say that your bf is going to go out tomorrow and cheat, just because you were thinking about him doing it.  But it&#8217;s more about the non-verbal signals you are putting out.</p>
<p>Over time, he will begin to sense your lack of trust.  If you have not said anything to him about these feelings, it doesn&#8217;t matter.  The message will get through and eventually you will push him away and therefore attract what you were so worried about!</p>
<p>So what can you do?  </p>
<p>Firstly you must understand that there is no 100% guaranteed way to prevent somebody cheating on you, so worrying about it happening is doing you no good whatsoever!</p>
<p>Next, it is time to listen to your heart.  If he has given you absolutely no reason to mistrust him, then maybe he is worthy of your trust?  </p>
<p>Whenever you begin to think these negative thoughts about him in this case, replace them with positive thoughts about him.  Think about how good he is to you, how well he treats you, and all of the good things you have together.  Over time, you will begin to &#8220;train&#8221; your mind to think positively instead of negatively.</p>
<p>On the other hand, if he has deceived you before, then it might be time to evaluate whether you are in a relationship with somebody who deserves you?</p>
<p>I hope this has helped?!</p>
<p>Michelle</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on How to be a positive thinker by ara</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/how-to-be-a-positive-thinker/comment-page-1/#comment-249</link>
		<dc:creator>ara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 04:32:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/self-confidence/how-to-be-a-positive-thinker/#comment-249</guid>
		<description>im not a positive thinker.. specially when it comes to my bf... i feel that his cheating and lying but its only in my mind... i am trying to avoid it but at times when his not around i think of it again... is there a problem with me?.. what do u think can i do?..

thanks

ara</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>im not a positive thinker.. specially when it comes to my bf&#8230; i feel that his cheating and lying but its only in my mind&#8230; i am trying to avoid it but at times when his not around i think of it again&#8230; is there a problem with me?.. what do u think can i do?..</p>
<p>thanks</p>
<p>ara</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Goal Achieved! I Have Quit My Job! by Vicki</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/setting-goals/goal-achieved-i-have-quit-my-job/comment-page-1/#comment-248</link>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 13:49:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/setting-goals/goal-achieved-i-have-quit-my-job/#comment-248</guid>
		<description>I have read the info on Barry&#039;s course.  I am sorry, I don&#039;t mean to sound pessimistic.  But it seems to me that the only one who is apt to get rich because of Barry&#039;s course, is Barry himself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have read the info on Barry&#8217;s course.  I am sorry, I don&#8217;t mean to sound pessimistic.  But it seems to me that the only one who is apt to get rich because of Barry&#8217;s course, is Barry himself.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Domestic Violence &#8211; Should I get out? by Michelle Green</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/domestic-violence/domestic-violence-should-i-get-out/comment-page-1/#comment-244</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Green</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 07:58:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/?p=520#comment-244</guid>
		<description>Kim, firstly I wanted to congratulate you on your strength for getting out of that relationship.

You are so right when you say that you should look into the future if you&#039;re in a relationship, especially one such as the one you were in.

If people do that then maybe they will realise that if they don&#039;t do something about it now, then they could spend the rest of their life (which may be cut short) like this.  

Thank you so much for sharing your story and I wish you all the happiness for your future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kim, firstly I wanted to congratulate you on your strength for getting out of that relationship.</p>
<p>You are so right when you say that you should look into the future if you&#8217;re in a relationship, especially one such as the one you were in.</p>
<p>If people do that then maybe they will realise that if they don&#8217;t do something about it now, then they could spend the rest of their life (which may be cut short) like this.  </p>
<p>Thank you so much for sharing your story and I wish you all the happiness for your future.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Domestic Violence &#8211; Should I get out? by Kim</title>
		<link>http://selfconfidence101.com/domestic-violence/domestic-violence-should-i-get-out/comment-page-1/#comment-243</link>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 07:46:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://selfconfidence101.com/?p=520#comment-243</guid>
		<description>Hi,
I just wanted to share some of my experience with Domestic Violence. About 4 years ago I was assaulted by my now ex - we were together for 13 years, we broke up but he still fed me the lines these guys do to keep me very much attached/
This man broke my nose and caused me irreversible facial damage. I was watched for brqain damage - Not only did he give me that experience to live with - but he shared it with my children as he did it in front of them, he gave us all emotional scars. Oh - It was finally an end to a turbulent violent relationship though.
If you are in a relationship I suggest you look to the future. Do you want to keep going til something makes it stop - either injury, breakdown or death?
You are only given one life - a functional relationship is that that allows you to truly be who you are and its non abusive and supportive.
I was 18 and am now 36 - this man took some great years of my life - but luckily enough I survived my injuries (not without other issues I might add) and I am now on my road to recovery.
I survived and am a survivor :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,<br />
I just wanted to share some of my experience with Domestic Violence. About 4 years ago I was assaulted by my now ex &#8211; we were together for 13 years, we broke up but he still fed me the lines these guys do to keep me very much attached/<br />
This man broke my nose and caused me irreversible facial damage. I was watched for brqain damage &#8211; Not only did he give me that experience to live with &#8211; but he shared it with my children as he did it in front of them, he gave us all emotional scars. Oh &#8211; It was finally an end to a turbulent violent relationship though.<br />
If you are in a relationship I suggest you look to the future. Do you want to keep going til something makes it stop &#8211; either injury, breakdown or death?<br />
You are only given one life &#8211; a functional relationship is that that allows you to truly be who you are and its non abusive and supportive.<br />
I was 18 and am now 36 &#8211; this man took some great years of my life &#8211; but luckily enough I survived my injuries (not without other issues I might add) and I am now on my road to recovery.<br />
I survived and am a survivor <img src='http://selfconfidence101.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
